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Remembering John Prine

by Dave HoekstraApril 7, 2020

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John Prine always seemed to be there for me.

But his music was there for you, too.

He wrote of angels that fly in from Montgomery, the mystical power of Wisconsin lakes, hobos, clocks and spoons and old people living alone in “Hello In There.”

He wrote “Hello In There” in 1969 based on a memory of delivering newspapers to a senior citizen home. He was only 23 years old. One of his favorite songs was “Far From Me,” about being raised near a junkyard in west suburban Maywood where “a broken bottle looks just like a diamond ring.”

John Prine saw those things.

He helped us understand those things.

John died Tuesday night from complications of Covid-19 at Vanderbilt University Medical Center in Nashville. He had been in intensive care for 13 days. He was 73 years old.

It’s not surprising to me how John’s career picked up steam over the past quarter-century. As the world became cluttered with ornamentation and pretension his plain-speak registered with generations young and old. How refreshing it was to hear someone tell the truth and speak from the heart.

John was born on Oct. 10, 1946, in Maywood. He grew up in a Maywood house framed by humble walls. His father William Mason “Bill” Prine was a tool and die maker in Chicago’s western suburbs from the 1930s through the early 1970s. The native of Paradise, Ky. had migrated north with his bride Verna to make a better life.

William and Verna raised four boys in Maywood: John, David, Doug, and Billy. They loved country music, Southern cooking and annual visits back to Muhlenberg County, Ky. William loved Hank Williams, Sr. William worked so very hard. He was president of the United Steelworker’s Union local in Maywood for 15 years. After his shift Bill Prine, Sr. would adjourn to the front porch of his frame house on First Avenue in Maywood. He’d enjoy a quart of Old Style.

And then he would watch the world go by.

“There was no interstate when we were growing up,” John told me in 2010. “First Avenue was a major route for semi-trucks and traffic traveling north and south to avoid the city. I’d lay in bed at night and watch the headlights. Growing up on a four-lane highway, it was like a river. There was always something going on. We’d have all our talks with our dad on that porch.”

Bill Prine had a fatal heart attack on that porch in 1971. He was 56 years old. Prine references that hot August day in his 1973 ballad “Mexican Home.”

John’s lyrics were filled with humanity and reason. The ample space in which he wrote offered room for his keen perceptions. His words were accented by gritty vocals that came straight from the dark Peabody coal mines of his grandfather’s Kentucky. He did not sound anything like a Chicago folk singer.

John moved from Chicago to Nashville in 1990. He was wholly embraced by the Nashville community. His kindness and purpose made him a modern-day Johnny Cash. A “Stay Independent” mural portrait of John was recently painted on the side of the new Grimey’s book and record store in East Nashville. The Oh Boy record label that John founded in 1981 with his late manager Al Bunetta is the second oldest artist owned imprint in America.

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John never forgot his roots. I last saw John in June of last year. He asked me to emcee a semi-private, intimate gathering at Val’s Halla in Oak Park. The record store opened in 1967 on South Boulevard in Oak Park and it had been struggling. John and his wife Fiona showed up to lend a hand and share a smile. Val’s was part of John’s youth.  He bought every Rolling Stones album, Chuck Berry and some Johnny Horton. Of course, this was when curious John wasn’t riding his bicycle by mobster Tony Accardo’s house in River Forest. As he always did, John uplifted every spirit in the record store that day.

John served in the U.S. Army in 1966 and 1967. He was stationed in West Germany. Upon his return home, he moved back into the same battleship grey house in Maywood his father rented for 30 years. He became a mailman and trudged through the snow and rain to spread the news in Maywood and Westchester–maybe even to the house I live in today. John once said, “I always likened the mail route to a library with no books. I passed the time each day making up these little ditties.”

By 1971 John had released his debut self-titled album for Atlantic Records. Mostly recorded at American Sound Studio in Memphis, it unleashed Prine’s gifts to the nation. “John Prine” featured “Hello In There,” “Paradise” (recorded in New York with the late Steve Goodman and Prine’s brother Dave who still lives in Maywood) and “Sam Stone,” about the fatal overdose of a war veteran. In 2016 Bob Dylan said, “Prine’s stuff is pure Proustian existentialism. Midwest  mind trips to the nth degree. And he writes beautiful songs. I remember when Kris Kristofferson first brought him on the scene. All  that stuff about Sam Stone the soldier junky daddy and Donald and  Lydia, where people make love from ten miles away. Nobody but Prine could write like that.”

John’s family were avid readers of the Chicago Sun-Times, where I was a feature writer for 30 years. There were a couple of reasons for their devotion. The Sun-Times was the working-class newspaper for union families like the Prines. And in 1970 the late Sun-Times critic Roger Ebert wrote the first review of the mailman from Maywood after seeing him perform at the long-gone Fifth Peg on the near north side.

John had the detailed observational skills of a newspaper writer. He would laugh off those thoughts, always pointing towards his lack of discipline. He had to move into a Nashville hotel room to work on his final album “Tree of Forgiveness.”  “I just wrote what I knew about,” John told me in 1985. “The kind of people I knew were mainly working class. I mean I didn’t even attempt to write a song about being a doctor’s son.”

In 2010 John returned to Maywood for two benefit concerts for the Maywood Fine Arts Association at Proviso East High School. Before that concert John told me how he used to push back on the fame that came his way. “I’d try to get home to Maywood or Melrose Park and just become ‘John Prine the ex-mailman.’ I wanted to stay connected. But it slips away from you. You gain something and you lose something.

“I miss that.”

At the Val’s Halla Q & A I asked John to tell his “Roger Miller” story. Miller’s “Dang Me” was a 1964 crossover hit when John was attending Proviso East. John remembered “this gorgeous girl” at Proviso. “She was so pretty that she only went out with college guys,” he said. “My senior year I’m sitting behind her in art class. She had a voice like Marilyn Monroe, real soft. She turned around and said, ‘Hi Jimmy. I went out with her for four months and never corrected her. I didn’t care what she called me. She said to me one day, ‘You remind me of that guy on the radio.” John asked her who she was talking about and she replied it was Roger Miller because of their shared sense of humor. John concluded, “Because she was  interested in me and I reminded her of him, I became a huge Roger Miller fan.”

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The first album. Thanks, John

John was a superb storyteller. He was the mailman with the magical sweepstakes who could even deliver joy to Bill Murray on a blue day.

Among the many awards and accolades John received included his 2003 induction into the Nashville Songwriters Hall of Fame, an Americana Lifetime Achievement Award for songwriting and he was honored at the Library of Congress by U.S. Poet Laureate Ted Kooser. Earlier this year he was given a Grammy Lifetime Achievement Award and he received  Grammys for Best Contemporary Folk Album in 2006 (“Fair and Square”)  and 1992 (“The Missing Years”).

John was brave, tough and full of love. In February he canceled dates in the U.K. and Australia to return to Nashville for hip replacement surgery. In early 1998 he was diagnosed with squamous cell cancer on the right side of his neck and underwent surgery to remove the diseased tissue. He was diagnosed with lung cancer in 2013. But he kept on making music and touring. He loved the road that he heard from his family’s front porch.

John always managed to view the world with a wry innocence. Last year he told American Songwriter, “When I get up in the morning I’m 9 years old. I’m not a 72-year-old man until I look in the mirror.” He kept a Christmas tree up year-round in his office. His wife made him move it out of their home.

It was odd yet very rewarding how I bounced in and out of John’s orbit over the years. During our 1973 senior year of high school, my friend Steve Lord and I would take the train to the Ravinia Festival to see the annual summer “folk concert” with John Prine, Steve Goodman, Bonnie Koloc and maybe Bill Quateman. Most of our peers were listening to the Allman Brothers’ “Brothers and Sisters,” but even as a teenager, John’s songs taught me about empathy. Then I became friends with drummer Angelo Varias, the late bassist Tom

Piekaraski and late singer Mike Jordan and the rest of the Famous Potatoes that served as Prine’s back up band in the late 1970s. Then, on the same night of my ill-fated 1985 bachelor party my beloved ex-wife Wendy bumped into John at Orphan’s on Lincoln Avenue. He signed a card wishing us all the best. I got that in the divorce!

There isn’t much that John wouldn’t do for me. He contributed a chapter in my “Camper Book” about a 30-foot Itasca RV that he never drove. When I was doing pirate radio at WGN-AM in Chicago, he came on the air with his brothers Billy and Dave–the first and only time all  three of them were on the same show. They had been planning to record a “brothers” album this spring at Jack Clement’s old studio in Nashville. (John’s brother Doug was a member of the Chicago Police Department for 32 years. He passed away in 2012 at the age of 70.)

John liked to tell me that my stories always had a beginning, middle and an end. And as sad as I am to be writing this right now, I know there is no finite nature end to John’s spirit. Every time I see an old person or come to a summer’s end I will think of John. He made me smile. He made me not feel quite so alone. He showed me where to find a better self. And really, those qualities are everywhere when you stop to see the world’s beauty in the most simple passages.

About The Author
Dave Hoekstra
Dave Hoekstra is a Chicago author-documentarian. He was a columnist-critic at the Chicago Sun-Times from 1985 through 2014, where he won a 2013 Studs Terkel Community Media Award. He has written books about heartland supper clubs, minor league baseball, soul food and the civil rights movement and driving his camper van across America.
60 Comments
  • Paul Cebar
    April 7, 2020 at 9:29 pm

    Sing it, Dave

  • Phil Alonso
    April 7, 2020 at 9:56 pm

    Thanks for sharing your memories of John, Dave. I realized texting with a friend about John Prine last week that his music and poetry have been part of my life for fifty years. My buddy said he hadn’t done anything for fifty years. I suggested that’s because he’s not fifty. He said, “good point.” My wife bought us tickets to see John at Red Rocks last summer, but his health issues led to postponement of the show, which we couldn’t attend. The past thirteen days or so have been filled with his songs on all sorts of devices. You’re right — there’s nothing finite about John’s impact and legacy.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 7, 2020 at 10:58 pm

      Thank you Phil, he exited on the night of the Super Pink Moon. He’s probably working on the chorus now. Be well, Dave

    • Jim Murphy
      April 8, 2020 at 9:34 pm

      Dave, That was a great retrospective, and Phil….
      I remember first hearing him on one of your incredible stereos back in the day and being a fan ever since. Yet one of my favorite memories is quite recent. I pre-ordered the vinyl version of “The Tree of Forgiveness” before it was released in early 2018. I forgot all about ordering it until it arrived in May of that year. It was like an unexpected surprise that I still cherish to this day. It leaves me feeling melancholy and happy knowing his legacy lives on whenever I want to play him. Life is short and COVID sucks! Long live John Prine

  • Mike Ostrowski
    April 7, 2020 at 10:00 pm

    Magnificent writing, as always! Regret I never met John.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 7, 2020 at 10:56 pm

      Thank you Mike, please stay in touch. If MLB does the whole season in Arizona I will drop in to see you. Be well my friend, Dave

  • John
    April 7, 2020 at 10:09 pm

    Nice work Dave…a great read on a sad day

  • Aaron
    April 7, 2020 at 10:38 pm

    This is perfect. Thank you.

  • Owen Leisey
    April 7, 2020 at 10:44 pm

    I met John at Naus. I worked at the pottery shop next-door ,Clarkesville pottery. he made fun of me because I literally had mud all over myself. I told him I enjoyed his songs and he had this perky little laugh. I’ve been a span for over 50 years. I will miss him.

  • Monica Eng
    April 7, 2020 at 11:04 pm

    Nice work, Dave. Very sad.

  • John Hinsdale
    April 7, 2020 at 11:13 pm

    This was a lovely read, thank you. I grew up in Westchester in the ’60s and ’70s and John P. delivered our mail. My mom, who was a musician at our church, would chat with him, just long enough before our dog, who was very anti-mailman, would come on the scene howling.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 7, 2020 at 11:38 pm

      Thanks John, and thanks for reading. Great story there and thanks for sharing that, Dave

  • Tom Jackson
    April 7, 2020 at 11:30 pm

    What a beautiful tribute to John. Thank you for pouring your heart and soul into this one. Take care in these crazy times…Tom

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 7, 2020 at 11:36 pm

      Thanks for reading all that, Tom. He was a great guy. A few years ago he showed up at Swett’s soul food restaurant in Nashville with his brother Billy for my “People’s Place” book release party. He bought four books and hung around for an hour. Zero pretension which made his songs so timeless. Your friend, Dave

  • Tom Tonnesen
    April 8, 2020 at 12:17 am

    Your writing, Dave…as much a treasure as was/is John Prine’s music.

  • Mark Bradshaw
    April 8, 2020 at 8:42 am

    I woke up this morning walked in the kitchen…….and cried

    First thing I did this morning was to see what you had to say…as usual, never disappointed.

    Thanks Dave,

    *I don’t have any slippers.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 1:46 pm

      Thanks, Mark. We will get together and have one of those vodka and ginger ales for John, Dave.

  • Paul
    April 8, 2020 at 10:44 am

    Beautifully written, thank you.
    I grew up in Broadview, which didn’t have a high school, so my older brother went Proviso at the same time as John Prine. I’ve always thought of him as this great friend that somehow I never actually met. I was lucky enough to see him in small theaters including the Guthrie in Minneapolis a number of times in the 70s.
    He came on the scene as a fully formed talent, and he only got better with age.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 2:49 pm

      Thank you for writing and reading Paul, so right on his growth–clearly comfortable in his own skin. Stay safe, Dave

  • Peter Holsapple
    April 8, 2020 at 10:55 am

    Thank you Dave, a beautiful recollection.

  • Mary McClellan
    April 8, 2020 at 11:34 am

    Thanks for the beautiful tribute to an extraordinary “ordinary” guy. I’ve loved John Prine’s music since his first album came out. He was part of a special time in music when genre labels didn’t quite fit. Prine wasn’t strictly country, nor was he strictly folk. He wasn’t rock-n-roll, and he wasn’t really bluegrass. He was just John Prine, and that was more than enough. Prine was like one of those troubadours of the Middle Ages, who traveled around and sang the stories of the people he met, chronicling the history of the times. People hundreds of years from now will know who we were because of John. RIP to one of the greats.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 2:27 pm

      Thanks so much for writing, Mary. You are absolutely correct on people understanding who we were in this big old goofy world.

  • April 8, 2020 at 12:47 pm

    Thank you so much for your moving and insightful tribute Dave. I never knew John personally, but the songs he wrote are part of who I am way more than I’ve acknowledged ..and continue to echo on the periphery of my daily life. I remember my girlfriend playing his first album for me while in college..we hitch hiked 150 miles to see him play in Tacoma, WA.
    Since then I’ve seen him many times- feeling blessed each time. I’m an artist and Sunday musician..I performed Darling Hometown at my mom’s funeral several years ago..I played it last night and cried.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 1:43 pm

      Thank you Michael, for taking the time to read this and share your thoughts. Stay safe, Dave

  • Joe Holtzman
    April 8, 2020 at 1:43 pm

    Thanks for laying out for everyone what many of us long time Chicago folkies were thinking last night – as we lost him the skies opened up in Chicago and rained down tears.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 2:08 pm

      Thanks for this Joe, he will be missed but his sense of purpose and delight will get us through the tough times. Stay safe, Dave

  • Roger Adams
    April 8, 2020 at 2:37 pm

    Great insights on My favorite singer/songwriter John Prine. You captured what I think John Prine had that was priceless. My favorite part: “How refreshing it was to hear someone tell the truth and speak from the heart.” Simple. Basic. With the insights of someone who knew where his “home” was, which is something unique and special in today’s world.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 3:02 pm

      Thanks so much Roger. John had no pretense. Beautiful, unfiltered empathy. Stay safe, Dave

  • Tom Marker
    April 8, 2020 at 3:07 pm

    Thanks, Dave. John Prine meant so much to so many of us. As do you. I’m so glad there’s still a way to read your thoughts. I was missing your writing when I got the papers this morning. Great to have you here with us at a time like this.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 3:13 pm

      Thanks so much, Tom. I know you know what John means to the fabric of America. Let’s have one of his vodka & ginger ales the next time we can wander into FitzGerald’s, Stay safe, Dave

  • Hugh Hart
    April 8, 2020 at 3:21 pm

    Hank Williams, Roger Miller. . . that explains a lot! Great tribute Dave, didn’t realize you knew John Price personally.

  • Marina Jason
    April 8, 2020 at 3:34 pm

    We shared a table when I had John out to appear at Fitzgerald’s in 2012. So many have gone since that time. You’ve saways been there for the family, having Fiona on the radio to talk about Thistle Farms. Always made room for Billy to promote his appearances in Chicago. I thought you’d be the right person to do a biography on John. Thanks for the nice piece, Dave. Heart is breaking today.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 8:04 pm

      Thanks for all your support Marina, you’ve been there for everyone. Please stay in touch and keep on keeping the community together. We may post some of that Earl birthday party footage. Thanks again, Dave

  • Ellen Carroll
    April 8, 2020 at 4:33 pm

    Thank you for this beautiful tribute. An old boyfriend introduced me to John Prine’s music back in 1982 with the heartbreaking album, “Bruised Orange.” It remains my favorite album of his to this day because you never forget the moment you “met” John Prine.
    Aww, baby. We gotta go now.

  • Helene Wineberg
    April 8, 2020 at 7:47 pm

    I loved John Prime and was trying to remember if he was in the concert at Ravinia that you mention at the end of your beautiful piece. I was at that concert in 1973 and was backstage, Bill Quateman had a crush on me and got me a pass. That was a moment for a sophomore in high school!

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 8:02 pm

      Thanks, Helene, I wrote this sorta fast but I did go to the Ravinia site to line up concert dates. Didn’t seem to go back that far. I’m guessing Wilderness Road was on that bill as well, or maybe a subsequent year. We went to a couple of those Ravinia folk fests. Thanks for reading this, Dave

  • April 8, 2020 at 8:04 pm

    Dave, That was a great read. I’ve learned a lot about John from the thoughtful articles that you and others have written in the last couple of days.
    I find myself also thinking about bassistTom Piekarski and so many others who have departed.
    Thank you.

    • Dave Hoekstra
      April 8, 2020 at 8:12 pm

      Thank you Harlan, Pickles, Mike Jordan, Bob Hoban, the Earl, Jay Kent, Richard Harding, Fred Holstein, Dundee, the list goes on. We were lucky to be running with them. Thanks again, Dave

  • Jim Barton
    April 9, 2020 at 10:19 am

    I’ve read quite a few John Prine articles in the past 24 hours, but this one included the comfort only a friend could provide. It couldn’t have been easy…thanks from a longtime fan. (Nora sent me the link.) Jim Barton

  • Scott Lewis
    April 9, 2020 at 1:15 pm

    Dave, that was beautifully written. John Prine was a National Treasure. Friends of mine would always ask why I would go to so many of his shows, and my answer was “because someday I won’t be able to!!!”
    Thank you for the wonderful tribute.

  • Wanda Fischer
    April 9, 2020 at 11:25 pm

    Dave–Thank you for this wonderful retrospective of John’s life. It’s obvious how much he meant to you, and I appreciate your sharing your great connection with him to the rest of the world. It means a lot to so many of us “out here” who had peripheral connections with him but never got to know him the way you did.

  • Steve Risley
    April 10, 2020 at 10:36 am

    I’ve seen dozens of JP concerts over the years and always felt like we were sitting in someone’s basement listening to records. Always great and very personal. You captured that perfectly. Thanks Dave..

  • Robin Rapp
    April 10, 2020 at 10:39 am

    Thank you for this tribute – a friend and fan’s narrative about John Prine, with vivid and humorous details about those shared years of our lives. The first time I ever camped out all night in line for concert tickets was when John played at NIU in Dekalb in the late 70s. I had no idea who John was, what songs he had written. But when heard his crackling voice for the first time in concert, I knew I’d best listen up. Anyone who sounded like John did AND wrote worldly, funny and heartbreaking songs that made me laugh and cry was worth staying up all night for.

  • Terry Mangum
    April 11, 2020 at 12:35 am

    Thanks. Great memories. Growing up in Harvey, with a Tennesse born father who was union president of his local steel mill for many years, John’s heritage was not unlike mine and many other blue coller families of the time. I’m so happy he had his victory lap, so to speak, with Tree of Forgiveness and the tours that followed.

  • Jeff Holcomb
    April 14, 2020 at 1:23 pm

    I enjoyed your reflections! Great is the sky, great is the sea, great is the class of ’73.

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